Why do some people do not vent ? Whether it is about personal issues or work issues or school issues, some people forget that how much venting helps.
I have met so many people in my life who either don't vent or unfortunately do not have good sources to vent.
At work my boss encourages that we vent to him (ofcourse except for when we have to vent about him :P). But it is such a good therapy, specially because he is aware of what we are venting about and sometimes has very useful insight. Sometimes during venting u realize how ridiculous you are being in a certain thinking - its like brainstorming :). I vent about my boss to my husband, I vent about my husband to my girlfriends and so on and so forth.
Though one has to be careful about who to vent to and how much. You do not want to be the person who when enters the room, people go : "Oh here's the whiner!!" .
But some people just do not understand the importance of venting. They keep all this negative energy inside them and suddenly one day they snap !! And when the snap they do so much damage to themselves its unbelievable.
If you do not have a person to vent it out to... write a blog (har har !!) and vent it out !!
2 comments:
I agree that venting out helps..but sometimes it's hard to draw the line between venting and cribbing...at least I often confuse the two :)
what do u vent about the most by the way ???? I mean one thing thats been on for a longer time.....
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